no chargebacks
#payments 2026-05-03
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- group_buy_gwen — update from 7 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed, someone check my working 11:08
- impersonator_ip — i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one… 11:21
- confirmations_six — a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try 12:30
- confirmations_six — there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually… 12:31
- impersonator_ip — a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that 13:22
update on the earlier thing is a bank transfer ever an option and is it a bad idea
is there any chargeback route at all
polite message usually fixes it
thats a scam pattern
update from 7 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed, someone check my working
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is the ten percent crypto discount standard everywhere now
check the first four and the last four characters of the address. every single time, no exceptions
*Medutest not the other one
invoice says £72 and my total came out different, whos wrong
unrelated but i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice
i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message
i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything
thats gone sorry
[edited]how many confirmations before a supplier usually marks it paid
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this
do you check the whole address or just the ends
on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily
update on the earlier thing work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this
do suppliers ever refund and how does that even work
whats a reasonable network fee to accept
sorry to jump in invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send, anyway
a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try
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there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one
invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send
check the total
slightly off topic but do you keep the transaction reference and for how long
i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time
do the fee maths
network fees were higher than the discount, has anyone done that maths
is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does
i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything, still working it out
the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume
if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel
the room holds no money, brokers nothing, and runs no escrow. that has never moved
a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that
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