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#mental-health 2026-06-06

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  • ring_size_down — how do you handle a partner who is not pleased about you doing this 21:55
  • rotate_the_site — if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it 22:34
  • rotate_the_site — the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely 22:46
CC

somebody thanked me a year later for something i barely remember saying, and that is why i still read this every day

that was me too

the quiet is strange isnt it

that counts

RS

i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it

how do you handle a partner who is not pleased about you doing this

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same at week 5

CC

im ashamed of needing a medication for this and i cant seem to shake it

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anxious every time i go up a dose, is that a known thing or just me

how do you deal with somebody saying you took the easy way

CC

genuine question nobody says you took the easy way about a blood pressure tablet, and i keep that sentence ready for when i need it

ok so i get anxious the night before a dose increase, so i take it in the morning now and sleep first

comments about my body were harder to take than any side effect and nobody warns you about it

RT

if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it

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RT

the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely

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feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel, not advice obviously

RT

the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight

RT

somebody said the easy way thing to me and i just said it was not easy and changed the subject. it worked fine, from memory

grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life

i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt

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FM

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me

RT

it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things

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FM

if all you managed today was the dose and some water, that counts and i mean that