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#payments 2026-05-18

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  • nordic_price_nils — do you keep the transaction reference and for how long 19:25
  • iris_imports — a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that 19:41
  • two_lifts_a_week — thats gone sorry, for what its worth 21:21
  • two_lifts_a_week — slightly off topic but thats a scam pattern 21:28

work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it, for what its worth

quick one the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to

CO

i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything

EE

do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution

NP

if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel, ymmv

HH

nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this

*Janoshik not the other one

update on the earlier thing i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message
a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try

update from 4 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed

HH

right so check the first four and the last four characters of the address. every single time, no exceptions

NP

on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily

HH

a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need

II

the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume

EE

i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice

II

there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one

polite message usually fixes it

a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that

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LF

sorry to jump in a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try

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discount is standard now

EE

is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does

refunds do happen and they are slow and awkward. do not count on one, take that with a pinch of salt

invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send

is a bank transfer ever an option and is it a bad idea

the room holds no money, brokers nothing, and runs no escrow. that has never moved, n of 1 obviously

paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it

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thats gone sorry, ymmv

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wait for confirmations

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post it in scam watch

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stablecoin while pending

on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily

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