has anyone been asked to pay a second time
[edited]#payments 2025-11-23
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- zed_zeroes_in — paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it 17:54
- VialBot — Purity check: no report on file for lot B-0114. Nothing logged either way. 18:08
- apob_over_ldl — invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send work out the network fee before you take the ten percent… 19:16
- identity_shift — there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one 19:49
- egfr_ed — invoice says £94 and my total came out different, whos wrong 20:38
whats a reasonable network fee to accept
paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it
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i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice
update from 11 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed, i think
check the first four and the last four characters of the address. every single time, no exceptions
polite message usually fixes it
Purity check: no report on file for lot B-0114. Nothing logged either way.
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do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution
thats gone sorry
triple check it
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anyone had a payment arrive and the order not update
the room holds no money, brokers nothing, and runs no escrow. that has never moved
i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, i think
a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need
i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message
if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel, from memory
how long do you wait before chasing an unconfirmed payment
invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send
work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it
coming back after 18 months, has anything changed on fees
no escrow here
check first and last four
post it in scam watch
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stablecoin while pending
update on the earlier thing network fees were higher than the discount, has anyone done that maths
a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that
there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one
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check the total
i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time
invoice says £94 and my total came out different, whos wrong
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is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does
discount is standard now
a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that