stablecoin while pending
#payments 2025-10-17
Friday20 messages6 participantstimes are UTC
Highlights from this day
- reship_rita — polite message usually fixes it 20:41
- reship_rita — whats a reasonable network fee to accept i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time 20:42
- site_itch — right so do you keep the transaction reference and for how long nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of… 20:57
polite message usually fixes it
🎉8🤝1📉12
whats a reasonable network fee to accept
i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time
is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does
i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything
while im here a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that
right so do you keep the transaction reference and for how long
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this
thats a scam pattern
do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution
discount is standard now
the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume
refunds do happen and they are slow and awkward. do not count on one
slightly off topic but a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need, thats one data point
paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it, ask me again in a month
post it in scam watch
how long do you wait before chasing an unconfirmed payment
there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one
do the fee maths
i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice