is there any chargeback route at all
i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice
#payments 2025-09-12
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- quiet.hours — is there any chargeback route at all i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice 20:13
- quiet.hours — coming back after 9 months, has anything changed on fees 20:16
- no_escrow_nate — right so is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does 21:01
- no_escrow_nate — the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume, from memory 21:02
coming back after 9 months, has anything changed on fees
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a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need
discount is standard now
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check the total
polite message usually fixes it
whats a reasonable network fee to accept
the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to
update on the earlier thing a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try
i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice
do the fee maths
right so is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does
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the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume, from memory
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keep the reference
invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send
triple check it
work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it, ask me again in a month
[edited]do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution