vialroom

#payments 2025-08-25

Monday26 messages8 participantstimes are UTC
Highlights from this day
  • VialBot — Verification log updated: SWB — evidence added, status unchanged. 22:58
  • closer_not_simpler — invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send 23:01
  • wrong_network — i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time 23:16
  • pinch_not_stretch — update from 23 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed, thats one data point nobody can verify an address belongs to who you… 23:34
  • bac_water_bill — if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel 23:39
VB

Verification log updated: SWB — evidence added, status unchanged.

SS

nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, take that with a pinch of salt

CN

invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send

🧪5🙏18🎉13

sent to the wrong network, is there any way back

i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice

post it in scam watch

the room holds no money, brokers nothing, and runs no escrow. that has never moved

refunds do happen and they are slow and awkward. do not count on one

🧪1

on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily

keep the reference

RR

do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution

paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it

is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does

WN

while im here coming back after 19 months, has anything changed on fees

i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything

BW

ok so check the first four and the last four characters of the address. every single time, no exceptions

stablecoin or not while an order is pending

PN

update from 23 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed, thats one data point
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this

💀5👀3

the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to

triple check it

polite message usually fixes it