how long do you wait before chasing an unconfirmed payment
#payments 2025-08-18
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- batch_bandit — invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send 19:21
- per_mg_pete — slightly off topic but work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it 19:26
- per_mg_pete — for the archive nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, thats just me 19:29
update from 20 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed
there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one, anyway
is the ten percent crypto discount standard everywhere now
the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to
invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send
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check the first four and the last four characters of the address. every single time, no exceptions
genuine question a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that
slightly off topic but work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it
for the archive nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, thats just me
a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try