how long do you wait before chasing an unconfirmed payment
#payments 2025-04-06
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- half_life_hal — a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try 17:17
- gradient_greg — is the ten percent crypto discount standard everywhere now 19:08
- ten_of_ten — coming back to this work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it, your mileage will differ 20:36
- motivation_gone — coming back after 23 months, has anything changed on fees a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need 21:52
- motivation_gone — nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, from memory 21:54
genuine question is a bank transfer ever an option and is it a bad idea
a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try
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update from 9 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed
how many confirmations before a supplier usually marks it paid
keep the reference
is there any chargeback route at all
has anyone been asked to pay a second time
invoice mismatches happen. check the total against what you actually sent, not against what you meant to send
paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it
[edited]polite message usually fixes it
do the fee maths
whats a reasonable network fee to accept
what happens if the price moves between invoice and payment
is the ten percent crypto discount standard everywhere now
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a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need
is there a way to verify an address belongs to who you think it does
no chargebacks
follow up sent to the wrong network, is there any way back
unrelated but anyone had a payment arrive and the order not update
i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message
discount is standard now
coming back to this work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it, your mileage will differ
do you check the whole address or just the ends
the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to
*Medutest not the other one
stablecoin or not while an order is pending
thats gone sorry
coming back after 23 months, has anything changed on fees
a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, from memory
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