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#mental-health 2026-05-26

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  • evidence_or_not — hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there nobody in this room thinks less of you for needing a medication.… 20:26
  • tga_notice — if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it i see somebody professionally about… 21:43
  • taper_tess — you are not the only person in here who has felt that, and i say that as somebody who was certain they were 21:52
  • tenpence — how do you deal with somebody saying you took the easy way 22:25
  • chain_of_custody — i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with, happy to be corrected 23:26
EO

hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there
nobody in this room thinks less of you for needing a medication. genuinely nobody

TT

i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it

my partner was not pleased at first and came round. what changed it was my blood pressure, not any argument i made

TN

does the quiet in your head ever feel like a loss rather than a relief

EO

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me

my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing

TN

sorry to jump in i keep waiting for it to stop working and the waiting itself is exhausting

update on the earlier thing is anyone else more anxious about running out than about any side effect

TT

people keep commenting on my body and i hate it, how do you handle that

FA

motivation has collapsed since the scale stopped moving, has anyone been here

CO

feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel

please talk to somebody

FA

i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it

FA

unrelated but flat is the word i used too. not sad exactly, just less colour in things for a while

TN

if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it
i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it

the running out anxiety is real and worth naming. i keep a spare month in the fridge and i sleep better for it

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TE

it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things, not advice obviously

TT

you are not the only person in here who has felt that, and i say that as somebody who was certain they were

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TT

grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life

TE

how do you deal with somebody saying you took the easy way

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TE

the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards, we shall see

CO

the food noise going quiet is the thing people are least prepared for. i sat in the kitchen at 8pm not knowing what i was for

CO

i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with, happy to be corrected

TE

unrelated but im ashamed of needing a medication for this and i cant seem to shake it