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#mental-health 2026-03-17

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  • VialBot — On this day 3 years ago this channel logged 51 messages. 21:49
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  • u100_pat — nobody says you took the easy way about a blood pressure tablet, and i keep that sentence ready for when i need it, take that with a pinch of salt 22:41
  • area_percent — ok so hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there 22:53
QH

the food noise went completely quiet and i dont know what to do with the silence, is that normal

QH

the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely

the quiet is strange isnt it

im at month 14 and doing well and feel strangely sad about it, is that a thing

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QH

the fraud feeling faded for me somewhere around the point i had kept it off longer than i took to lose it

QH

the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight

BF

grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life

U1

i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it

U1

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me, not advice obviously

QH

comments about my body were harder to take than any side effect and nobody warns you about it

AP

how do you tell family youre on this without getting a lecture back

AP

coming back after 26 months to say thank you, is that alright to do in here

i feel like a fraud reading the wins channel, does that go away

U1

quick one i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number

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how do you stop reading every twinge as something serious

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U1

i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it

VB

On this day 3 years ago this channel logged 51 messages.

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BF

i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt

VB

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BB

i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with

AP

slightly off topic but the disorienting bit for me was realising how much of my day had been spent thinking about the next meal

BB

the food noise going quiet is the thing people are least prepared for. i sat in the kitchen at 8pm not knowing what i was for

im ashamed of needing a medication for this and i cant seem to shake it

BF

feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel

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U1

nobody says you took the easy way about a blood pressure tablet, and i keep that sentence ready for when i need it, take that with a pinch of salt

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people keep commenting on my body and i hate it, how do you handle that

VB

Inter-lab diff for lot SG-1177: 96.8% vs 99%. Within expected range.

AP

does anyone else find compliments make them want to hide

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update from 8 months ago: the flatness lifted, slowly, and i did not have to change anything to make it

ok so hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there

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