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#mental-health 2025-12-07

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Highlights from this day
  • ruo_only — it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things, your mileage will differ 20:57
  • ruo_only — follow up my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing 21:32
  • first_month_fi — i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with 22:26
VB

Assay note: KP lot B-0329 reported at 99.4% of label content.

SO

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me, i could be wrong

hold on if you can

coming back to this does anyone talk to somebody professionally about this side of it

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DD

if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it

CS

i built a whole personality around being the one who cooks and now i barely eat, does that pass

the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards

RO

it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things, your mileage will differ

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mood dipped hard around week 10, did that lift for anyone

RO

follow up my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing

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thats grief honestly

i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it

RO

i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number, still working it out

CS

my partner was not pleased at first and came round. what changed it was my blood pressure, not any argument i made
feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel

RO

the food noise went completely quiet and i dont know what to do with the silence, is that normal

FM

i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with

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VB

On this day 6 years ago this channel logged 112 messages.

SO

coming back after 21 months to say thank you, is that alright to do in here